Getting married is one of the most important and biggest decisions of your life. It’s difficult to find the perfect one so when you think you’ve finally found your soul mate, you get married and naturally assume this marriage will last forever. But what if it doesn’t?
Some people get lucky – they find their soul mate and have a happily ever after. Others? Well, they don’t get to be lucky in the marriage department. So the unlucky pair usually ends up getting divorced in Sacramento, which is quite challenging – both physically and emotionally. According to American Psychological Association at present, over 40 to 50 percent of couples end up getting a divorce in the United States and what’s even higher is the divorce rate for subsequent marriages. In all honesty, getting married is great for couples’ health. It enhances your mental and physical well being and a happy couple ends up building a happy family. That is why getting a divorce is often devastating – a traumatic affair indeed. (When I mean that getting a divorce can be tough, I am referring to both partners who suffer in marriage.) Although women suffer greatly while going through a divorce, men do also. Men have it just as hard as women – however, men don’t show their vulnerability as much as women do because they’ve been taught to be strong and never appear weak. Based on these stereotypical labels that men have received over the years, it makes it much harder for them to disclose their thoughts and feelings to anyone. I remember when I was getting divorced. I was used to sharing my thoughts with my ex-wife because she was the closest person in my life but during our divorce, I wasn’t sure whom to consult and share my feelings with without being judged. Consequently, I ended up feeling isolated, miserable and frustrated about my situation. And it didn’t do me any good mentally or physically. So I broke all the stereotypes and sought out help. Trust me, that was one the best decisions I took, without having any regrets. If you are getting divorced or want to help out someone going through their divorce, first of all, my condolences! Getting a divorce is not easy but believe me, everything will be fine with time. The pain and struggle for this will only last a while. This divorce checklist for men should help get you on the right track. Comments are closed.
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